Everyone who knows me for a while knows that I ‘love’ observing people within their natural or unnatural habitat, as after doing this for many years, it is very easy for me to read their energy. Of course the best teacher in life is experience, but the second best is undoubtedly observation and the great thing about the latter is that you don’t have to go through the experience yourself if you don’t want to. On the other hand, if you like what you see you can use that vision as a standard and catalyst to create your own.
What I have noticed is that more and more people get lost in distractions because they think ‘they have time’. They work nine to five, 5-days a week and party it up over the weekend as if the world will end tomorrow and then repeat the same process yet again and again. Others are so busy running here and there, triple-booking themselves not to have to spend time alone. They simply want to make their life as busy as possible, planning distraction after distraction, so they don’t have to see what is really going on in their life.
Most people don’t particularly like what they do and have no plan to make a change because change involves leaving their comfort-zone.
The majority of people simply stay in relationships, routines or situations because they believe they are not able to change or they are not worthy of having a better life! Others are being kept hostage by fear.
Life is too short to do things that don’t make us happy. Of course to work towards a goal can be challenging and will require effort, but we always learn along the way and when we get there the feeling of fulfillment is priceless.
So, have a think: “What do you want out of life? And, is what you are doing right now bringing you closer of taking you further away from your goal?”
The good news is: Your time is now!
Remember that where you are today is the result of the choices and decisions you have made in the past 5 years. If you are not happy where you are now, you can re-write your future, simply by making different decisions – yes it is that simple! Every change is just one decision away!
It doesn’t mean because we will live to a hundred that we have to waste more time! Remember, we will only regret the steps we did not take.
Start early and enjoy living your dream life today!